Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Influence #1: The Church

There are two entities God put on the earth to influence the hearts of children and families. One is the church; the other is the family. Today, we are going to talk about the influence of the church.

As we learn to think Orange, we need to understand the reason God created the church. Many books have been written about the purpose of the church, and everyone seems to have an opinion as to why the church exists. Granted, different churches do serve a variety of roles in society, but there is one thing every church has in common regardless of size, denomination, or location:

The church has been strategically placed on this planet to display God's glory to the world.

In other words, the church's purpose is to shine a light on Jesus Christ so a dark world can see Him. Our responsibility is to show the world who Jesus is. So, the question is this: At SpringWell, are we making it harder or easier for families to see Jesus? Are we focusing the light in the right direction?

When SpringWell is shining her light on Jesus, several things happen:
  1. We clearly show children the wonder, mystery and power of God.
  2. We help teenagers in their struggle for signifigance by giving them a glimpse of their Creator.
  3. We aid families in seeing God through His sacrifice for us - which, in turn, changes the way families see a broken world.
Our role as the SpringWell Family Ministry is to shine a light on Jesus so families in our community can see Him. We can best do this by having a strategic plan where the church and the family are teaching their children the same thing, at the same time, in the same way.

Next, we are going to talk about the other major influence in every child's life: the family.

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Family Ministry Building Progress

For the past several months, the Family Ministry Team and many valuable volunteers have been working on the Family Ministry Building getting it ready for our growing ministry. Every week, God sends more children and families our way, and we are truly humbled that He would allow us to serve these families through SpringWell Church.

Here are some photos of progress that is being made just this week! Hope you enjoy them.

This is our giant logo hanging on the front of the Family Ministry Building facing Wade Hampton Blvd. It measures 20' across and 11' high!

Here is another shot of the logo. You can see it in perspective to the front of the building. Notice the car parked to the left.

We are building a temporary preschool auditorium because we don't have the room for all the kids on Sunday mornings! Greg, SpringWell's facility guru, and his team of awesome volunteers are knocking out a wall here.

This is Jackie painting an orange stripe in one of our nursery rooms. She has a real heart to serve. There is a purpose behind the color orange, and yes, we know how bright colors can affect children.

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Why You Should Believe in Orange


What would you fight for? I mean really fight. Not the kind of fight you talk about when a slow driver pulls out in front of you, cutting you off in traffic, and then going e...x...t...r...e...m...e...l...y slow. Are you frustrated? Yes. Will you fight about it? Probably not. Not if you have any sense, anyway.

What would you fight for? I mean fight to the death. Would you spill blood for a front row parking space, or a front row ticket to see your favorite team play your favorite sport? Would you lay it on the line with someone who disagreed with your political beliefs or your religious beliefs? To the death? Only one walks away?

When it gets down to it, there is probably not much you would fight to the death for. But what about your family - your better half, your kids? Would you fight to the death for them? I would...and am. I would fight for my family without hesitation - to the death. Whatever it takes to protect them. I am fighting for my family right now. And yes, this fight is to the death.

Of all the enemies your family has in this world, there is one that stands above all others. This enemy hates you and your family and is doing everything within his power to make sure your family is destroyed. His Hebrew name is Satan. Jesus called him the Deceiver. The Devil. Some of us can look at our family and see the battle scars that the Deceiver has inflicted on us - divorce, depression, drug abuse, alcohol abuse, broken relationships, runaway children, absent fathers, detached mothers. The Deceiver has been attacking the family for a very long time. He started with Adam and Eve and he continues his brutal assault today. Your family has been hit, my family has been hit, and the battlefield is littered with countless bodies - members of families who became victims of the Deceiver's merciless attacks.

Why haven't we done anything about these attacks on our families? I'm not sure. Maybe we wrote them off as "life" or "fate." Maybe we were too weak to fight back. Maybe we didn't even realize we were being attacked. Or...maybe we did want to fight back, but we just didn't have the weapons. Why should you believe in Orange?

  1. It is biblical.
  2. It may be the best weapon we have, not only to protect our families from the attacks of the Deceiver, but to actually hit back.
Fight for the heart of your family.

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

Why I Believe in Orange


When I accepted the position of Family Pastor at SpringWell Church in January of 2009, I knew I had my work cut out for me. Not because morale was low or there was a lack of leadership. It was really because SpringWell had decided to go in a different direction and hire a Family Pastor who would actually start a Family Ministry. So, after the right people rolled the Urim and Thummim* and they suggested a "yes" for me, I became the new family point man.

Everything was good. Until I started writing my ideas about Family Ministry down on paper. I knew biblically what it should look like, feel like and smell like, but the more I wrote, the bigger this Family Ministry thing got. It was turning into a giant octopus like the one in the old Disney movie 20,0000 Leagues Under the Sea that attacked the submarine. It was huge, strong, relentless and I couldn't see around it's massive tentacles. So, I did what any normal pastor would do in time of need, when the answer just isn't clear and hope seems, well...hopeless. I became frustrated.

Surfing the WWW one day soon afterwards, I found a book at Amazon.com called Think Orange. And honestly, the only reason it even interested me was because the author had the same surname as me - Joiner. We even spelled it alike. His first name was Reggie, though, not Chip. And when I saw a photo of him, I thought he was my long, lost brother my mother never told me about. He was a very handsome man - brown hair, bald (except on the sides), oval face. I couldn't place my finger on why I liked Reggie Joiner so much. That's a picture of Reggie above, not me.

Turns out Reggie Joiner was the Family Pastor at North Point Church in Atlanta, GA, and had written this book called Think Orange. As I read through the introduction and discovered what Reggie's book was about, I immediately ordered it. Days later, when the UPS truck dropped it off at my house, I feverishly ripped open the package and began reading. I finished it that night.

I discovered two things by reading Reggie Joiner's, Think Orange:
  1. Reggie and I may look alike and spell our last names the same way, but that is where the similarity ends. He is a LOT smarter than I will ever be.
  2. The ideas that had been floating around in my head for so many months about Family Ministry that I could not properly convey - Reggie put into words that made complete sense.
So, why do I believe in Orange? Because it explains Family Ministry from a biblical perspective, it creates a strategy to get us from where we are to where we need to be, and because it works. Over this series of blogs, I am going to walk through Reggie's book, Think Orange with you. I won't give away any deep, dark secrets - you need to buy the book for those (and it is worth buying). But I will discuss the ideology behind the book and allow you to comment on the content. I would love to have an open forum discussion about this. Orange is what SpringWell is buying into, and I believe we have already seen some great fruit (Get it? Fruit? Orange?) from being early adopters. But we are only seeing the tip of the proverbial iceburg with this.

I look forward to hearing from you and your thoughts/feelings about Orange.


*(See Leviticus 8:8) Little is actually known about the Umim and Thummim except that they were probably precious stones or flat objects that God used to give guidance to His people. The High Priest kept them in a pouch attached to his breastplate. It could be that each object had a "yes" side and a "no" side. The priest would spill both from his pouch. If both landed on their "yes" sides, God's answer was positive. Two "no" sides were negative. A "yes" and a "no" meant no reply. Kind of sounds like a Magic 8 Ball, doesn't it? But they were really used by the Israelites in important decisions.

Monday, February 23, 2009

Amazing Grace and Lynyrd Skynyrd

I thought maybe it was time I shared with everyone how God used a Southern Rock band from Jacksonville, Florida to lead a punk kid to Christ. That punk kid, by the way, was me. I was raised in Birmingham, Alabama. My father was a homocide detective seargent for the Birmingham Police Department during the sixties when the race riots were raging in the streets and Mayor Bull Conner turned the fire hoses on so many African Americans. Fortunately, my father wasn't involved with all of the racial unrest because, being a detective, he didn't "walk a beat." He remained with the police department through the seventies, and retired in 1983. My mother was a hard worker who managed a cafeteria and owned a local deli.



Although they were good people, my parents did not attend church, and at the time, were not Christians. I rarely attended church, and was raised to be simply uninterested in God. My girlfriend at the time, Cindy (who is now my wife), would drag me to her church every now and then. I would go on Sunday nights when there were only a few people in attendance because I didn't want to be around church people. Honestly, I hated it, but I liked Cindy - so I went.



In 1979, while riding in the car with my friend, Bobby Streip and his sister (who was driving), we were listening to some music and hanging out. Bobby's sister put in a tape of a band named Lynyrd Skynyrd. I didn't know who they were, but when I heard the first thundering riff of their song "Saturday Night Special," and those triple lead guitars screaming through 120 watt Peavey amps I knew I was listening to something that stirred my soul. I was only in 9th grade, but this was a spiritual moment for me - and in that moment I was transformed. My life would be different - just because of this music! I had found my "god." And his name was Lynyrd Skynyrd.



I joined the church of Skynyrd and was baptized as a follower when I bought the "Nuthin' Fancy" album and immersed myself in the depth of the music. I became a fully devoted follower and disciple of Skynyrd when I began to lead the lifestyle the band was leading. I bought an electric guitar and tried to learn some of the songs, but failed miserably, so I learned how to drink whiskey and act tough (even though I was 5'9" and 129 pounds). I got into a lot of trouble, did some stupid things, and hurt some good friends - all because I saw myself as "tough" and "mean." Honestly, I was too big for my britches.



I graduated from high school in May of 1983, and joined the navy because I wanted to leave everything behind and conquer the world. In November of that year I left for the navy and bootcamp in Orlando, Florida. After bootcamp, I put in for my orders and asked to be sent to either, Hawai'i, Spain, or Bermuda. Instead of paradise, the navy sent me to Jacksonville, Florida (the home of Lynyrd Skynyrd). I was ordered to the Aircraft Intermediate Maintenance Department for four years of shore duty. In other words, I was going to become very familiar with Jacksonville over the next four years. My navy career was actually very positive. The military helped to mature me in some ways, and I was awarded several times as sailor of the month, quarter, and even year for Naval Air Station, Jacksonville.



Since I was going to be in Jacksonville for my four years, I decided to move off base and into an apartment. The apartment I found was located in Orange Park - directly across the street from the cemetary where Ronnie Van Zant and Steve Gaines (members of Lynyrd Skynyrd) were buried. Their plane had crashed in 1977 in a swamp in Mississippi killing several members of the band and ending their reign as the kings of Southern Rock. In fact, when I looked out my bedroom window, I could see their graves. I now lived in the same town where my "god" was from and I could see his grave every day. I continued to soak up everything Skynyrd and live the lifestyle of a Southern Rock band.



In April of 1985, my friend, Jeff White (a Christian), told me about a band that would be playing at Orange Park High School on Friday the 26th. He explained that the band was called "Vision," but that there were four members of Lynyrd Skynyrd in it and wanted to know if I could go. (Could I go? To actually see members of Skynyrd? Of course I could go!) I handed him $2 for my ticket, and excitedly prepared myself to finally meet my "god."



The night of the concert, I dressed in my best Skynyrd outfit - Freebird t-shirt, black wristbands (it was the '80's, okay?), boots, and my best jeans. I rode my motorcycle to the show and met Jeff out front. As we entered the auditorium (lunchroom), I noticed a guy holding a Bible intensely talking to another guy who was not holding a Bible. I thought to myself, "Man, why can't these Bible thumpers leave us alone and let us enjoy the show?" Little did I know that God's hand had been orchestrating this moment since that day in 1979 when I first heard Skynyrd on that tape deck riding in the car with Bobby Streip and his sister.



We took our seats, the lights in the auditorium darkened and the band took the stage. I was so excited about finally seeing Skynyrd I almost couldn't contain myself. To my right stood Leon Wilkerson on bass guitar, and Gary Rossington on lead guitar. To my left was Billy Powell on piano and keyboards. And behind the lead singer was Artimus Pyle, the drummer. It was really them - members of Lynyrd Skynyrd - and I was in the same room with these guys.



The music started, but they didn't play any Skynyrd tunes. That was okay, just being there was heaven for me. But about three songs into the set, the band stopped and the lead singer stepped forward and began talking about God, church and religion. The band would play a song or two, then he would talk about Jesus. I began to get the picture. This was a Christian band. I admit, I was somewhat disappointed by this turn of events and even thought about leaving, but it was Skynyrd (for the most part) so I decided to stay.



By the end of the show, the lead singer had talked about Jesus in ways I had never heard before. He talked about how God accepted me, and loved me unconditionally. He explained how Jesus was my advocate in heaven, pleading my case, and how he took the punishment for my sins. In the end, the lead singer asked anyone in the audience who wanted to know Jesus to come down to the stage so they could pray. As people moved to the stage, the band members would stop playing and go to the people at the front and pray with them.



I can't explain adequately in words what happened next, but in my spirit, I felt compelled to go to the front. As I did, Billy Powell, the piano player for Lynyrd Skynyrd (my god), met me at the stage. He asked my name, and I told him. He introduced himself and said that we were going to pray. I held his hands (the same hands that played Freebird!), and the lead singer led all of us in a prayer. As the prayer ended, I not only felt - but saw -the Holy Spirit enter me. It felt as if someone had poured a bucket of icewater over me. At that moment, my life was changed! I didn't know how, but I knew I was different. God had used Lynyrd Skynyrd to bring this punk kid to faith in Jesus Christ. That was Friday, April 26, 1985. Today, some 24 years later, I still don't understand why would God do that for me, but I sure am thankful he did! Since that day, all I have honestly wanted to do is give my life back to God.

Thursday, January 29, 2009

A New Chapter

Well, this past week was one to remember - in a good way. I ended my ministry at First Baptist Mauldin (a kind and loving church, btw), and began my new ministry at SpringWell Church. The folks at SpringWell have been fantastic to work with and I really look forward to the journey we are going to take together.

When I started as Family Pastor at SpringWell, it ended a long journey with God in which he tested me and my family in ways that we sometimes couldn't understand. I hope to share my journey of the last several years with you here over time - and maybe it can help someone who is struggling to understand why life sometimes hurts so badly. The only thing I will share with you right now is this - embrace the struggle.

God has faithfully seen us through our "dark night of the soul" and now we have a new beginning. Honestly, there were days when we thought we would never get another chance. We had no hope. Today, I can say God delivered us. I also know that there will be more "struggles" in the future, but for now I am enjoying the mountaintop! I am really looking forward to writing this new chapter of our lives!